Gingerbread Benefit

Like the Jingle Ball, the Gingerbread Benefit is a growing holiday fundraiser Triangle tradition. Proceeds support Triangle Family Services. Prior to attending this event, I knew little about the organization. But just before the live auction portion of the evening, one of the many individuals who has sought solace and support with their help took the stage. She gave a straightforward delivery of an unbelievably tragic car accident involving her husband and young son. In the aftermath, TFSNC helped her when she wasn’t sure where else to turn. It was a powerful story, and it really demonstrated how important a nonprofit like this is in times of need.
And more power to them for organizing a unique and fun annual event like this to draw awareness and funds. I loved building gingerbread houses as a kid — but my mom would usually get the kits on sale after-​season, and by the time it was time to make them the following year, well, old icing and stale gingerbread doesn’t hold up too well! By comparison, the gingerbread masterpieces and mansions at this event are absolutely incredible. TFSNC partners with local chefs, and the results are some cool creations. This year I saw the Red Baron asleep on his dog house right beside Charlie Brown’s sad Christmas tree; the Walt Disney castle; even Raleigh’s Lafayette Village.
Aside from the art… the FOOD! Umstead hosts the event and, of course, they always impress. Four different small bite stations including a build-​your-​own shrimp and grits station; wonderful cheeses and fruit; a carving station; and a dessert table that had a different offering (panna cotta! chocolate mousse cake! lemon cheesecake!) on it every time I walked by. Red or white wines were available, as well as beer, all included in the ticket price. And the Umstead staff did a great job walking around with passed hors d’oeuvres and clearing dishes.
Lining the event space are dozens of silent auction items, thoughtfully organized by «sporting events,» «family,» and so on. A great mix of items and very reasonable starting bids. They even put the «retail value» on the bid sheet. I’ve actually never seen this before, and hope they weren’t cheating themselves by clue-​ing us in!
Loved the choral group at the entrance, but it was awkward that they were stuck in a hallway, and we had to awkwardly squeeze by them — or patiently wait — to get to the event room. They sounded beautiful — I think they should have been able to sing in the lobby (while people are checking in) or even in the event room itself.
I was surprised and disappointed to find we were among the youngest of attendees (who weren’t volunteers). I don’t know if it had to do more with the price point ($ 85) or the Cary location. But I hope it starts shifting. This was a really fun and really worthwhile event — and an important cause. Consider showing your support next year!