Herzmark Nick Mft

i dont like to say anything bad about anyone, and im very easy going on people. in early 2010 I decided i needed a therapist and so i decided to try nick out. well boy was I in for a surprise. I was feeling crappy about life and thought he could help me. it didint work out, he is very new agey, and there is nothing wrong with that, but it didint work for me, plus we would use methods on how to improve my problems and they didint work and he would attempt to use the same method and tell me im just not trying hard enough. Also I felt like he would be condescending to me and use words like” How does that make you feel”? or «ohhh im so sorry» Maybe im wrong and maybe he was being genuine but i got the impression it was just to move along. he would forget stuff very easily and i would constantly have to remind him over and over again about details. Plus politics should never come up, but he seemed to think i was anti obama, when in fact im mad at obama because he is eating out of the republicans hands, then i told him i was becoming a pescaterian and he said «if you really cared about fish you wouldint eat them». first off im not eating any other meat how about being a bit positive about that and secondly i felt like he had this superior attitude because he knew more then me. I also thought when i was having difficulty with people he would take their side and see everything in this objective light. Im the first person to admit to my own mistakes and im far from always being right, but he seems to like to defend 72 year old grandmothers who are disrespectful of their grandchildren. maybe he is a nice guy and im missing out but i feel like his methods dont work, and he often comes across as judgemental and condscedning right now i am seeing a great therapist and having much better luck.