When I retired several years ago, I moved from San Francisco to Brazil. I spent three fantastic years there until the rate of exchange did me in(the bottom fell out of the dollar) and I couldn’t afford to stay there any longer. I had to give up my apartment, my new life, and my new life partner and move back to Kansas City(where I grew up and where my family still lives). I fell into an extremely deep depression about the collapse of all my plans and the loss of my partner, and knew I needed help. I was referred to Bob Feuer(pronounced Fewer) by my then-psychiatrist. I was looking for a therapist who is gay or gay-friendly and found that in Bob. He has been extremely good and caring when I was at probably the lowest point in my life, and over the past couple of years has helped see me through a really deep slough of despair. I really appreciate the help he has been to me, and the support I’ve received from him as my depression finally lifted(I’m glad to say it’s gone now). If you’re looking for a kind, caring therapist, I can heartily recommend Bob. He does a lot of relationship therapy, helps with coming-out issues, and does all kinds of other general therapy. He has extensive inpatient clinical experience. I can unreservedly recommend him. There is more information about Bob(and his partner in life and practice, Larry Tyndall) on their website.