Relationship Muse/Consultant

Barbara Gordon lives up to her title as muse. She listens to your hopes, aspirations, goals, doubts and fears then inspires you to reach for your dreams. She also guides you on how to harness your doubts and fears for personal growth and fulfillment. Barbara is warm, resourceful and creative and she uses her talents and skills to provide you with tools to compose your own life’s song.

Barbara is like family to me! I have been working with her for 5 years because now she is like a love coach AND my life coach. She pushes me in ways that no one else in my life does and for that I am so grateful. Barbara has helped me become a much better partner in a relationship because she lets me know when she thinks I am overacting or behaving in a way that may not be fair to the other person. On the flip side, she also has helped me see when maybe someone isn’t best for me. She has helped me find the gifts in the relationship and move on. The amount I have grown because of my work with Barbara amazes me. My first session with her I may as well told her I hated all men (maybe I even did… LOL)! Now the men I draw into my life are INCREDIBLE and I KNOW this would not be possible without all my hard work with Barbara. Everyone in my life knows about MY Barbara. There have been times where she has said «well I think you are really good on your own now» and that is probably true but having her as a coach in my life is invaluable to me. I would hire her and refer to anyone in my life in an instant! There are not enough words to describe how 5 star she really is. Love you Barbara!

My experience working with Barbara, The Love Muse, has been such a wonderful experience and not just for me another male friend of mine whom I referred to Barb is in love now, Unbelievable and true, so I will share my story.
Prior to working with Barb, we had met several times and she asked me how my dating experience was going, so I either told her a funny story about my last date or said that I was on a dating «break». The stories I thought were funny are really not, it was more about my thinking I should be in relationship then eliminating matches or dates I had been on for some reason or another. I did not see the plain truth which was that I was not attracting men who valued me or were the right type of guys. I would go out on date, get frustrated then go on a dating break again. A vicious cycle of disappointment while dating and relief at my break periods.
Barbara helped me to be honest with myself and helped me see the self sabotage game I was playing. It was not the break from dating that I wanted, it was a block to the disappointment, effort, failed attempts, confusion and heartache that I wanted to avoid. I wanted to stop making the same mistakes and choices and free up my time to do the things that I love while being excited about going out on dates again.
Barb, gave me weekly assignments, dialogues and check ins to help support me through the dating process. Was I surprised to see how effective it was. When I waffled on the price of working with a life coach I realized that my time is so valuable and the time I was spending going out with dates that were not going to come to a long term relationship (my true desire), it was an easy decision. Time is money and my time is valuable. Now I am attracting the right matches and have the support to understand myself and the dating process better. So far so good. I have recommended Barb to both men and women and they are delighted, I bet you will be too.

Barbara has been a tremendous help to me. She has gently guided me along my path looking for love, and when I complain that this man or that man is not right, she’s able to help me look at my own internal stuff so that I can clear my blocks to attract Mr. Right. Recently, she coached me on my current relationship and helped me move out of fear into a wonderful experience with a great man! Dating and relationships have not been easy for me and it’s just wonderful to have Barbara’s support and wisdom as I truly want more love in my life!